Showing posts with label Etiquette. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Etiquette. Show all posts

3/7/13

The Whisper Game

careless whisperAs the Sho-Rei-Shobu-Kan webmistress, Shihan has given me permission to film and upload videos from the dojo at my discretion for all of the arts, except for Karate and Kobudo. He is very selective in what he wants shared publicly from those two arts. We are also not supposed to talk about any of our specific training or methodology regarding them, which is why I don't discuss those sort of things. It's basically like Shihan thinks of training in traditional budo as a version of the whisper game, and the farther you are away from the original source, the less valid the information is likely to be. Master Miyagi created Goju-Ryu, he taught it to Master Toguchi, and Master Toguchi taught it to Shihan Roseberry, so we are about as old school as it gets! Even if all the answers could be found on the internet, Shihan doesn't want us to look for them there.

 Sho-Rei-Shobu-Kan Media Policy 

The coming of the information age, with its various media of video, print and the Internet, has presented novel issues for the traditional budo organization, not foreseen by past practitioners and teachers in the budo. Therefore, a policy regarding such matters is particularly important for an organization that holds as one of its goals, the continued practice/preservation of traditional Japanese and Okinawan martial arts. It is the philosophy of the Sho-Rei-Shobu-Kan organization that a traditional budo organization educate its members/students via direct teacher-student interaction, with the ultimate aim being a learning process facilitated via actual, physical instruction and execution of its curricula. As part of this philosophy, the SRSBK organization limits distribution of its curricula to members of its organization who are actively training in its traditional arts, and does so solely via actual, in-person, training and instruction. Shihan has said many times that “the answers are on the floor.” One of the things that he means by this is that by spending time with the materials of our system, and actively performing them, many answers to the student’s questions will become apparent. 

Our system is rich in sequences requiring the use of a partner. One of the reasons for this is that physical training with a living partner is an essential element of learning and obtaining proficiency in the budo. It is literally a “hands-on” process. Understandably, branch members may frequently be great distances from a sensei who can provide them with answers to specific questions. In that instance, the preferred solution is to come to the sensei, or to bring the sensei to the student. 

With that said, it is the policy of the SRSBK budo organization that it require its members to abstain from publishing materials detailing the execution of its varied curriculum, such as kata, kiso kumite, kata bunkai, or other pre-arranged drill sequences. This abstention requirement includes all “empty-hand” as well as “kobudo” or “weapon” materials within both its Goju-Ryu Karate and Matayoshi Kobudo programs. For purposes of this policy, publication shall include, Internet posting of video, Internet posting of written descriptions or “how to” sequences, and other public distribution of recorded media of the above mentioned materials, via CD, DVD, VHS tape or via other data recording means, as well as distribution of print media, such as books, magazine articles, etc. detailing the execution of said materials. 

Finally, SRSBK members are asked to remember that they are representatives to the public of the organization as a whole. As such, while conducting themselves, they should be mindful of traditional budo etiquette, including the “Notions for Training.” Noteworthy among these ideals, in this context, are those of modesty and preserving/upholding our system. One should foster a sense of discretion regarding one’s training or abilities. As an analogy, traditional etiquette says that when leaving the dojo, the student should not openly display one’s obi. The reasons for this etiquette are twofold: (1) showing off one’s obi is immodest and reflects poorly upon the student’s teacher and the student’s system, and (2) doing so invites conflict or challenges from individuals outside of the dojo. By extension, our practitioners should refrain from unnecessary publication of their abilities or our curricula. As an organization operating under the model of a traditional Japanese or Okinawan ryu, the SRSBK budo organization functions via a hierarchical system. The location of governance of this hierarchy is the hombu dojo, headed by Shihan John Roseberry. Therefore, when in doubt about activities involving the aforementioned materials, members should consult with the hombu dojo.

2/2/13

People are People

I've been told that the most important etiquette in the dojo is "Treat your seniors with respect and your juniors with kindness." The devil's advocate in me wants to ask "So, if your juniors don't respect you, does that mean you don't have to be kind to them?", but it's a stupid question, because I already know the answer.

I always try to treat everyone in the dojo with respect and kindness, unless they give me a good reason not to (and even then I usually err on the side of caution). I believe every person deserves to be treated well, regardless of their rank or ability. I respect the effort as much as the result, and I try to be kind with people's feelings as well as to their bodies. No one is perfect, we all make mistakes, and we can help each other learn from them.

Outside of the dojo, it's the same for me, people are people. Everyone is struggling on some path of their own, and if we all showed more kindness and respect to each other, it would make all of our lives better. Taking the high road isn't always the easiest route, but I think it has the biggest payoff.

1/2/13

So Fresh, So Clean

Good boy!
Our dojo holiday party was rescheduled due to a blizzard, and we ended up having it last Friday.  I went in with Joe to help teach the kid's class before the party that night.  He asked me what I thought we should have them work on, and I said we should make them clean, which we did for the last portion of class.  Joe told them we needed to clean the house before the guests arrived for the party!

One of the parents told me to thank the person who came up with the idea, because she loved it.  Her son also does fencing at another school that is run as a club (like the dojo is) which means they don't have janitors there either.  She said they make the parents of the kids who train there do the cleaning.  I've decided that is an excellent idea, and it's about time my mom went to the dojo and cleaned it for me!  Just kidding!

I actually got the idea from Sensei Gorman.  At the end of the Friday adult class, he regularly has the students clean the floor the "traditional" way, using towels.  One time when I showed up for class, he had us clean the dojo for the entire hour and a half.

The funny thing is, unlike some of the adults, the kids actually seemed to enjoy cleaning, and understand why they were doing it.  They didn't do the greatest job, but they were happy to help.  The dojo is our home away from home, and it's all of our responsibility to help keep it presentable, even the kids.  Now it's fresh and clean for the new year!

7/8/12

The Magnificent Seven

The Seven Virtues of Bushido are stalking me! I hadn't thought about them for while, and I had almost forgotten they existed, but now they seem to be everywhere I look. Last week I was going through some of my old papers from the dojo, and I ran across a copy of them, then the very next day I was having a conversation with someone, and they happened to bring them up. After that I was reading the SRSK Six Articles and the Notions for Training, and I realized that they correlated to the Virtues. Then I was thinking about how I would define what makes a person a martial artist as opposed to just a fighter, and I decided that if they try to follow the Seven Virtues, then they are a martial artist.

I've seen the words interpreted a few different ways, but this is how they appear on the paper that I have (the simple explanations are my own):
  • Justice (Gi)- Doing what is right. 
  • Courage (Yuki)- Not just the courage to face danger, but to face our own weaknesses. 
  • Benevolence (Jin)- Compassion towards all, without judgment. 
  • Politeness (Rei)- Adhering to the rules of etiquette. Everyone deserves to be treated with respect, and no one is above common courtesy. 
  • Veracity (Makato)- Being honest, having integrity. 
  • Honor (Meiyo)- Maintaining a good reputation. 
  • Loyalty (Chugi)- Obligation to give back to those who have helped us, as well as being true to our own goals.
The seven samurai
The original magnificent seven!

4/29/12

The Unwritten Law

After my belt etiquette post, one of the Jiu-Jitsu students said that he thought he knew all the belt rules, but he had never heard "Don't carry your belt around your neck."  I think that's because not all of the rules are written.  That particular etiquette was an unwritten one that I chose to write down, because it is a pet peeve of Shihan's.  The student asked the purpose of the rule, and I said "Well, if you have your belt around your neck and Shihan sees you, there's a good chance he will break the rule about not choking people with belts."  Shihan just doesn't understand why someone would voluntarily put a noose around their own neck (and the same rule applies to nunchaku).  A Judo Sensei said "So, you have a collar around your neck, and I can choke you with that, too."  True, but only a trained person can usually do that, while any idiot can choke someone with a belt.  A collar has to be around your neck, but a belt doesn't.

An additional reason for this rule is that generally if you are not wearing your belt, then you should not be displaying it.  You are also not supposed to toss your belt over your shoulder, or carry it dangling in your hand.  Technically, it should be folded up and tucked discreetly under your arm (or inside your gi).  If you carry your gi with the belt tied around it, and it's not in a bag, then you should also tuck the gi under your arm, so that the belt is not displayed.  Showing your belt in any manner except while wearing it to train, compete, teach, or demo your art is considered bad etiquette.

There are even more unwritten belt rules that I didn't mention...if you have to fix or remove your belt, turn away from your partner and/or the class (unless you are in a competition-never turn your back to your opponent-and don't fix your belt or gi unless told to by the ref)...do not ask a black belt what dan rank they are...don't touch someone's belt without permission (except in the course of training)...etc...etc.

In the following video I broke etiquette at the beginning when I let my belt touch the floor, and at the end when I turned my back to Shihan (I was supposed to just walk backward).  They still let me keep my black belt!


4/25/12

Beltiquette

Last Friday my husband went to open mat with me, then afterward he changed into his karate gi to teach the kid's class, and I was leaving the dojo.  When he tried to give me a kiss goodbye, I told him "No PDA while wearing your belt".  You never saw a man take a belt off so fast!

I was really just giving Joe a hard time, because he is "The Etiquette Police", and he likes to remind me of what a sorry excuse for a martial artist I am when I have occasional lapses in etiquette memory.  Shihan was standing there when this incident happened, and he said if there was such an etiquette, then he was in big trouble!

We do have a few belt rules in our dojo, but I guess tasteful displays of affection are acceptable.  However, if you asked the students from the kid's class, they might disagree.  I have a feeling they would probably think it was icky, belt or not!


Roseberry's Sho-Rei-Shobu-Kan belt etiquette:

Never let your belt touch the floor.
Never throw your belt.
Never slap or choke other students with your belt.
Do not carry your belt around your neck.
Do not wash your belt.
Do not wear your belt outside of the dojo. 

Remove your belt before eating, cleaning, etc.

(Obviously the first one doesn't apply to when your belt touches the floor while training, and I'm not sure what "etc" is, but I thought it was "kissing" ;)

"Etiquette means behaving yourself a little better than is absolutely essential." -Will Cuppy